The three pairs that actually earn their spot
Shoes
A kid does not need eight pairs of shoes for summer. They need three, and each one does a job the others can't.
Closed-toe sneakers are non-negotiable for playgrounds. Mulch, hot metal slides, and the random screws that show up in playground gravel will end a sandal-wearer's day fast. These don't need to be fancy — they just need to be on the kid's feet at the park.
Sandals with a back strap are for everything else: errands, restaurants, walks, daycare pickup. The back strap is the whole point — flip-flops slip off, trip up new walkers, and end up lost under the car seat. A strap means they actually stay on.
Water shoes or pool slides are the unsung hero. Splash pad surfaces get hot enough to burn little feet, lake bottoms have rocks and sharp shells, and pool decks are basically griddles by 2pm. Skip these and you'll end up carrying a barefoot, screaming kid across hot pavement at least once this summer. Learn from the rest of us.
Resale shines here because kids' feet grow two to three sizes a year — meaning most pairs barely show wear before they're too small. There's no reason to pay retail for something they'll wear for ten weeks.